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36 Stylish Gifts for Stylish Gay Men

  December 12, 2019  |    #Live Fabulously

Stylish gay men want stylish gifts

Desperately searching for that perfect gift for the stylish gay men in your life? We’re here to help you have a gay ol’ time all year long with stylish gifts for your gay men!

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Stylish gay men want these 15 stylish gay gifts

If you’re Jewish, you’re SOL. But, hey, steal from the Christians. I eat rugelach. If you’re Christian, it’s getting down to the wire. Here’s a list of things that, if I don’t already have, I want.

We’ve compiled this list of stylish gifts for the husband, boyfriend, daddy and fruit flies in your life, so indulge.

1. A clothing subscription 

Picking the right shirt, shoes, jacket or anything for a stylish man, let alone a gay man, is hard. Why not get them a stylist of their own with a Bombfell clothing subscription box for $60/month or $75/season?

Clothing Subscription

Bombfell is great because of it’s casual yet urbanesque style. Get up 20% off his order! Who doesn’t love saving a bunch of money like that?

Your guy will get:

  • A package every month or quarter
  • Customized packages could include shoes, accessories, jeans, shirts, shorts, all designed around his style, fit and the season

2. Stylish hard luggage for stylish gay men

Go to any gay gathering and one of the first questions is, “where’ve you been lately?” Gay men, especially stylish gay men love to travel and look good while doing it.

DELSEY Paris Helium Aero Hardside Luggage with Spinner Wheels

A great gift, at $117, to give to the well-traveled or businessman in your life is the Delsey Luggage Helium Aero Carry-On Spinner Trolley.

Why is this gift awesome?

  • The hard casing protects your man’s goods, even that bottle of wine he’ll bring home for you
  • Ours are super lightweight and durable, which is great because we shove a lot in
  • These fit into most overhead bins, so he won’t have to delay his trip waiting at baggage claim

3. Stylish gay men love Mother Earth

Stylish men today know that taking care of our planet is necessary and is a great way to stay in style. With the ME.Mother Collapsible Straw Set at $15 you can go in style and help save the planet. It’s also a great gift for the guy who loves to travel, with its handy spork and easy-to-use cleaning tools.

ME.MOTHEREARTH ME.Mother Earth PREMIUM Collapsible Reusable Stainless Steel Eco Friendly

A second great way to take care of the earth is to ditch the plastic toothbrushes and floss for a greener option you won’t feel bad about trashing. Give him the ME.MotherEarth PREMIUM Charcoal Natural Bamboo Toothbrush & Eco Biodegradable Floss Set to help him keep his teeth and the earth clean also for $15.

What you need to know:

  • Both products use plastic-free, eco-friendly packaging
  • Use reusable steel and/or natural and biodegradable parts
  • They’re compact, stylish and guilt-free

4. Stylish gay men look sexy in sexy underwear

Gay men love underwear so much it’s amazing there’s not a Victoria’s Secret for men. But better than Victoria’s Secret is Andrew Christian, the gay men’s gay underwear maker.

Get 30% off and a free pair of undies his first month!

Andrew Christian Underwear Club

Boxers and other old-man underwear make us cry, and we appreciate a well-fitted and juicily filled brief. Ah, straight boys, most women do, too. Ditch grandpa’s panties.

You both appreciate that:

  • All packages are hand-selected by Andrew himself
  • All underwear uses the softest fabric and highest quality elastic, including our Ultra Slimming Elastic

5. Cuff him

Cuffs aren’t just for play. Give your favorite guy these fun cuffs, and he’ll play with you all night long. Not only do they look stylish, they’re great conversation pieces. For less than $50, these cufflinks will jazz up any suit or office attire. Plus, they’ll set your gay apart from the non-gay suits with Tom Ford style links.

SS Men's Whistle Fun Cufflinks Silver

 

Your Super Bowl ring inspired cufflinks don’t make up for the fact that you don’t have a Super Bowl ring. Go for something better.

Why these cuffs slay:

  • They’re fun and abstract
  • They’re easy to clean
  • Come with a special box for storage

6. Give your stylish gay man big balls

David loves Sazeracs. Some say it’s America’s oldest cocktail. Truth be damned, they’re yummy. Regular ice cubes makes any highball bland. For your stylish drinker, bigger is better.

Tovolo 80-9697 Leak-Free With Silicone Sealed Lid Anti-Tip Set of 2 Stackable Molds for Whiskey Spirits Liquor Cocktails Soda More Frost Charcoal

Give him these large Kitch ice cubes or give him these large Tovolo ice balls. They melt more slowly than traditional ice cubes and let your high-baller drink more slowly. For as little as $8 and $10 respectively, your favorite gay will impress his guests, cocks and hens alike.

Why get these:

  • They’re big and size matters
  • They can also be used for freezing juices, cooking wine, stock, soups, leftovers and baby food

7. Save for politics, Russian men and Moscow Mules are hot

Lick the rim of a Moscow Mule in a glass and you’ll quickly learn it’s a sad state of affairs. Sadly, too are many bars. Your home shouldn’t be. For as little as $22, give your favorite gay his own copper cup collection by Advanced Mixology. That’s a better mix!

Moscow Mule Copper Mugs Set

By spring, your man will be ripe for a fete of Moscow Mules. Give him a good rim and a quality mule with this affordable and stylish gift.

Why there’s no better rim:

  • This mug is 100%, pure copper
  • It’s tarnish-resistant, so he’ll always have a clean rim
  • It comes with a lifetime warranty, giving you more bang for your buck

8. Put a sock on him

Stylish businessmen don’t have much leeway when it comes to style. Socks are an exception. Bedazzle your gay with Happy Socks, and they’ll be light in the loafers both literally and figuratively.

Happy Socks Gift Box

At $14 for an individual pair or $48 for a boxset of four, there a literally thousands of designs with which to make your stylish gay man happy. Give it to him until it hurts.

Why Happy Socks will make him so happy?

  • Happy Socks offers protections for sexual orientation and promises to pay all employees a living wage
  • He’ll be able to jazz up any outfit for any event
  • Even cankles will look cool

9. Stylish gay men love Dollar Shave Club

I quit shaving because it’s a small pain and facial hair’s fashionable. David shaves and prefers to shave and save. Razor blades are damn expensive and a man with thick hair can dull a blade faster than a Latin mass. A four-pack of razors at Target goes for $12. $12 a month is $144 annually.

Dollar Shave Club Ultimate Shave Gift Set

The Dollar Shave Club starts as low as $1 a month + shipping & handling

You can even start him off with just $5 for the first month! Then you can buy him multiple gifts.

Why he’ll want to join the club?

  • Future buys will be cheaper than going to the store
  • He can stop going shopping
  • Dr. Carver’s Daily Shave Butter is buttery goodness

10. Keep your stylish gay men liquored up

My sister sent one of these to us before we jetted off on vacation the other year. What seemed like a novelty is now a necessity. Your man will love the Carry On Cocktail Kit when he wants to fly in style. Let him be the mix master with this awesome mini cocktail mixing kit. A perfect fit for his carry-on.

The Carry on Cocktail Kit

For just $27 apiece, make your cabin seat first-class with your own tonic, thimble-sized jigger and travel-size bar spoon. Ring the cabin bell for your first-class delivery of gin, vodka or whiskey and you’re on vacation before liftoff.

He’ll love this because:

  • Each makes a cocktail for 2, cause you know he loves to flirt when he’s a mile high
  • They can be easily stuffed in his Happy Socks as a stocking stuffer
  • They’re already been groped and grabbed by TSA, so they’re TSA approved

11. Stylish gay men stay stylish when traveling

For the well-traveled, organization is a must. For $18, give your man these TravelWise collapsible cubes for wise traveling. You and your man can keep your essentials, nonessentials and unmentionables organized so well no one has to die.

TravelWise Packing Cube System - Durable 5 Piece Weekender+ Luggage Organizer Set

These packing cubes go from fitting together tightly packed luggage to being a portable dresser in seconds to every hotel room a home.

These are a solid purchase because:

  • They make packing, a miserable task to begin with, a breeze
  • They’re lightweight, durable and keep items secure

12. Send your stylish gay man away (or go with him)

What’s the point of gifting gay travel items if they can’t afford to travel? Get them outta your hair like that gray by giving these travel gift cards by his favorite brands to his favorite destinations far and away. Nothing says, “Merry Christmas, and I love you” like “Get outta here!”

AirBnb Gift Cards

Gift cards go far because they’re easy and never disappoint. So, save yourself the hassle and be sure to make him happy.

Why these are all the shopping you ever need:

  • They’re simple
  • They make everyone happy
  • You can give as much or as little as you like

13. Drown the silence for stylish gay men

The only thing worse than a lack of cocktails poolside is a lack of thumping disco beats. Give your bikini-clad body beautiful this musical Bluetooth speaker by reliable speaker maker, JBL, and turn any poolside repose into a partaaaaay for just $80.

These speakers go anywhere, too. So, you gay man can listen to his favorite diva anytime, anyplace.

These speakers rocks because:

  • they’re wireless, so they go anywhere
  • offer surround sound, so the sound sounds great
  • rechargeable, so the dancing never needs to end

14. Give him a gurl he’ll love all his own

From Alexa Carrington to Alexa Woods to Alexa Papadopolous, there’s indubitably an Alexa your gay loves. If not (or even so), give him his very own Amazon Alexa to keep safely in the privacy of his own home for $25.

Amazon Echo Dot

He can’t cut her hair, but he’ll hear all about the latest celeb styles as he drifts to sleep with the only girl he’ll ever let in his bedroom.

He’ll think she’s the best:

  • The speaker’s better than ever.
  • Alexa takes over 10,000 commands.
  • She plays music, answers questions, reads the news, checks the weather, set alarms, controls compatible smart home devices, and more.

15. Give him the fuzzies

Still water and wine go together like Madge and Gaga. Keep your queer quenched and fight his hangover by giving him this SodaStream.

Once you tell him drinking lots of water makes wrinkles disappear, he’ll love this gift (and you) forever for as little as $95. We got one years ago and love it like a firstborn son and save more money than ever.

Why SodaStream’s a dream:

  • They look stylish on any counter.
  • They travel.
  • Dinner guests love options.

These are our fifteen-holiday suggestions for the mo in your life. Hopefully, these ideas will take some of the pain out of the insufferable holiday shopping season. Happy holidays to you and all the stylish gay men in your life!

16. DC Comic Books

Got a guy who loves Star Trek, gaming and comic books? Then, up to 90% off DC Comics are a must-get.

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This deal only lasts until January 3rd, so don’t miss your chance to make your gay geek especially happy this holiday season. With every print at $4.99, even those normally priced at $29.99, please the geek.

Best gift for your gay friend (you know, you GBF)

17. A weighted blanket

If you’re GBF’s single, he probably most wishes he had another man holding him in bed at night. Make him feel a little extra cozy and help him sleep better with this YnM Weighted Blanket. It’ll fit in any duvet and comes in every size and weight imaginable, so it’s a gift that’s bound to please the most stubborn gay.

YnM Weighted Blanket

Give him the gentle sensation of being held to encourage deeper, healthier and more restful sleep with the latest in modern sleep technology.

He’ll be even more comforted knowing . . . 

  • the 7-layer technology’s designed to comfort any body size or shape
  • it’s made of either breathable cotton or bamboo
  • optimized for temperature control

18. Philips Norelco Stainless Steel Multigroom All-in-One Trimmer

Does your gay friend shave his head or style and trim it between professional cuts? Does he trim his legs, should hair or “down there”? If the answer’s “yes” to any combo of these, he’ll love the Philips Norelco Stainless Steel Multigroom All-in-One Trimmer complete with its own carrying case.

 Philips Norelco Stainless Steel Multigroom All-in-One Trimmer

We travel a lot and I take mine with me everywhere. And, at $55, you’ll love it as much as he will. Trust me!

Even better

  • He’ll no longer need blade oil, which everyone loses or runs out of
  • The rechargeable battery now lasts up to 6 hours, meaning he won’t have to worry about how far an outlet is from the tub
  • There’s now a 5-minute quick charge for single trims – lifesaver!

19. Osmotics Blue Copper 5 Anti-Aging Body Lift

One of the things that amaze me about myself – and others, too! – is my healthy and young-looking skin. No really! We’re often asked, “You’re how old!?” We attribute that to a consistent routine that includes applying Osmotics Blue Copper 5 Anti-Aging Body Lift to our faces every night.

Every. Single. Night.

Osmotics Blue Copper 5 Anti-Aging Body Lift

Osmotics is the only thing I’ve gone to bed with more than my husband. With the anti-aging magic of it copper peptides, your GBF will love it as much, too. I get the 5 oz/$94 jar, and it lasts me three months+ because I only apply a small amount.

Get this:

  • It firms bust, belly & behind for visible lift, and
  • improves the appearance of crepey skin

Great gifts for your husband or boyfriend (gay, straight or otherwise)

20. Cartman 148-Piece Tool Set

The best part of having someone by your side in life is to have someone to laugh and share with, to travel and aspire with and . . . . to help you fix that squeaking doors. So, help your man be a better helper with this Cartman 148-Piece Tool Set, a general household tool kit that stays organized and easily portable with a specially molded box for just $25.00.

Cartman 148-Piece Tool Set

Complete with most of the tools needed for small home repairs, fix any hinge, hang any picture and cut any wire without having to call a handyman – just call your man – with this complete set.

Also . . . 

  • all the tools are made from environmentally-friendly resourced materials
  • and are heat treated and chrome plated to resist corrosion, meaning they’ll last forever

21. Acqua Di Gio for Men

Nothing makes me more excited (maybe I’m exaggerating) than the smell of a good smelling man. Other than the natural scent of a good smelling man, nothing beats Acqua Di Gio for Men.

Acqua Di Gio for Men

With a combo of calabrian bergamot, neroli and green tangerine, there’s no better stocking stuffer for under $100.

What’s good to know?

  • Applied appropriately, on pulse point to the wrist, inner elbow or neck, 1 bottle lasts years
  • It’s a fresh and sensual scent reminiscent of the Mediterranean Sea

22. Peter Thomas Roth Power K Eye Rescue

The other cream I can’t live without is Peter Thomas Roth’s Power K Eye Rescue. If I go one night without using it, I can’t look at myself in the mirror because I can see that I’m not the fairest of them all.

Peter Thomas Roth Power K Eye Rescue

This is another high-end gift for your man at $100 for 0.50 oz, but he’ll love looking at you loving looking at him. So, everyone’s happy and it’s well, well worth it.

It’s worth it because:

  • Reduces the appearance of dark circles and lines
  • Provide antioxidant benefits with all its Vitamin K, Vitamin C, and Green Tea
  • Finally, a little dab’ll do ya

Gay couple gifts (meaning you both get it in the end)

23. Ultrasonic Essential Oil Diffuser

Help them feel rejuvenated, refreshed and invigorated with this Galaxy Premium Ultrasonic Essential Oil Diffuser by Aroma Outfitters. Even traditional medicine is getting on board with the out of this world health benefits of essential oils. Guaranteed to last longer than those essential oil diffusers made of sticks, this $45 gift goes far.

Essential Oil Diffuser - 3D Glass 200ml Galaxy Premium Ultrasonic Aromatherapy Oils Humidifier With Amazing LED Lights, Handy Auto Shut-Off Function & Large Water Tank

With its LED lights, this diffuser is a one-of-a-kind conversation piece. What better way to show you love them both than giving them the gift of beauty, art and health.

What’s more?

  • There’s a 100% money-back guarantee
  • Its medical trade tank ensures safe diffusion
  • They’ll never expect a gift like this

24. A Honeyfi account

As this is a money blog for queer people, we’d do you a disservice if we didn’t share our #1 favorite budgeting app, Honeyfi. We’ve had Honeyfi on the Queer Money® podcast twice to discuss their study that showed gay couples who talk about money regularly have better sex. We love Honeyfi because it lets couples progressively share their accounts and personal financial information, along with savings goals, customizable budgeting and spending tracker, and spending notifications and analytics as their relationships grow.

Honeyfi is an app that helps couples save money, pay down debt, and get ahead

New couples save $700 after just one month of using Honeyfi. And, get this, with the special discount we negotiated with Honeyfi, you’ll get a 10% discount off the $59.99/year or $9.99 per month fee, costing you only $53.99 or $8.99 respectively.

They’ll love . . . 

  • The increased financial security that comes with talking about money
  • The better sex that comes with talking about money
  • Less stress and improved mental health

25. Opux Insulated 2 Bottle Wine Carrier

No one needs a wine carrier but everyone likes being extra. Give your favorite couple everything they don’t even know they want with this wine tote with shoulder strap. Not only is this tote sleek and streamlined, with 10 color choices there’s a color to match every couple’s style.

Insulated 2 Bottle Wine Carrier Wine Tote Bag with Shoulder Strap Padded Protection Corkscrew Opener

For just $21.00 for a 2-bottle tote and $23.00 for a 3-bottle tote, their arrival at any party will make the other guests happy because they’ll be looking good and have wine to share.

The extra on this extra

  • Adds protection for transportation
  • Is temperature controlled
  • Shoulder strap is detachable

26. A gay sex toy kit

One of the best parts of having a l/t boyfriend, partner or husband is experimenting, and you know your favorite couple likes to play. Surprise and delight them with this LANYHU nylon and leather toy set.

LANYHU Plush Suit Nylon Leather Binding Set Alternative Props

At just $23.00, they’ll get way more from you than they ever expected and you’ll get a lifetime of thank yous. Spread the love with nights of endless fun.

The other tricks with this treat are

  • Made with high-quality, environmentally friendly material
  • Reusable

The best for gay men who have everything

27. The Gay Agenda Undated Calendar

The gay man who has everything has a lot going on. Help a gay brother out with this LGBTQ-inspired calendar. This calendar’s perfect because it doesn’t include dates. That means you can buy a bunch of these calendars to gift year-after-year to all your LGBTQ friends, especially at the reasonable price of $9.51.

The Gay Agenda Undated Calendar

What makes this pocketbook size planner even more special is that it includes inspiration quotes from leaders throughout LGBTQ history. That’ll keep your gay man who has everything motivated.

Why he wants this?

  • He’ll stay organized
  • He’ll be more productive
  • He’ll show his pride while winning work and life

28. Deszon Wireless Charger Stand for all things Apple

Does he have all things Apple but stress about staying charged? Kill his stress and keep his bedroom clean with this specially designed charging stand for his iPhone, Apple Watch and AirPods. He’ll love having his nightstand clean, not misplacing his phone or watch before bed and starting each day with all his gadgets at 100%.

Deszon Wireless Charger Designed for Apple Watch Stand Compatible with Apple Watch Series 5 4 3 2 1, AirPods Pro Airpods and iPhone 11 11 pro 11 Pro Max Xs X Max XR X 8 8Plus

For less than $43.00, you’ll find the color best suited for his room, black, midnight green or space gray.

This’ll make him happy because:

  • Once the stand is plugged in, he won’t have to worry about any other wire or cord
  • It assembles super easily
  • This special design will let his Apple Watch act as a clock/alarm clock while it’s charging

29. A stylish coffee cup warmer

The guy on the go drinks a lot of Joe. So, get your man with everything this stylish coffee cup warmer that looks like it’s made by Apple to keep his Joe hot. Not only is this warmer easily portable and waterproof, it comes with auto on/off to turn off automatically after he removes his mug.

Coffee Cup Warmer for Desk with Auto Shut Off

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

At $22.99, this gift is a steal relative to the happiness it spreads.

The more you know

  • Keeps tea, cocoa and hot toddies hot, too
  • Works with any cup or mug

Our favorite boxes for stylish gay men

30. Bombfell Club clothing subscription 

Picking the right shirt, shoes, jacket or anything for a stylish man, let alone a gay man, is hard. Why not get them a stylist of their own with a Bombfell clothing subscription box for $60/month or $75/season?

Clothing subscription

Bombfell is great because of it’s casual yet urbanesque style. Get up t0 20% off and $20 with his first month! Who doesn’t love saving a bunch of money like that?

Your guy will get:

  • A package every month or quarter
  • Customized packages could include shoes, accessories, jeans, shirts, shorts, all designed around his style, fit and the season

31. Andrew Christian monthly

Again, Gay Men + Underwear = Happy. For under $14 a month, give your man stylish underwear sent to his mailbox monthly.

Andrew Christian monthly underwear club subscription

You both appreciate that:

  • He’ll find a new reason to be sexy every month
  • He’ll watch his collection grow and grow

32. Bright Cellars

If you know us, you know we love wine – and there’s a good chance your favorite good, gay guy does, too. What we love more than drinking wine is taste-testing new wine. That’s why we love Bright Cellars. Bright Cellars curates wines from around the world based on subscriber’s unique preferences then delivers any number of wines with the frequency optimal for your gay guy.

Bright Cellars monthly wine subscription

A recurring box of 4 wines cost $60, and using this special link will get your guy $50 off his first box of 4 bottles.

What makes this special

  • Users take an easy, almost fun tasting quiz to start their customized curation
  • He can skip or cancel anytime

33. Birchbox for better grooming

Gay men love our products almost as much as we love our travel. For $10/month or $110/year, Birchbox Grooming will give your stylish gay guy feel-good grooming and self-loving product designed especially for men, including skincare, makeup, tools and more. He’ll also be able to upgrade to get monthly lifestyle products or accessories, and he’ll have you to thank all year round.

Birchbox Grooming monthly subscription

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Snag a free gift or sample with purchase on $35 or more, so you and he are both winners.

What he’ll love

  • He can create a custom profile to get the products he’ll most like
  • After providing his first 5 sample review, he’ll get another $5 off coupon
  • He can earn reward points for future purchases

34. Freshly for freshly prepared food

Does your guy hate to cook or simply not have time to cook? Answer his prayers with chef-prepped and healthy gourmet meals by Freshly sent straight to his door. All he needs to do is heat and eat. Amazing, at $8.99 per meal (prices vary depending on the plan you choose for him).

Freshly Weekly Meal Delivery Services

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Better yet, Freshly uses zero gluten, refined sugar, or artificial ingredients. As if this couldn’t get any better, get $60 off your first four orders ($15 per order) of Freshly with code LAUNCH15.

He’ll also love . . . 

  • Meals average 500 calories, range from 300 – 650 calories if he watches his weight like most gay boyz
  • Customers can specific dietary preferences and needs, from vegetarian to vegan to pescatarian

35. Urbanebox for more clothing

Give your man a monthly supply of individually curated clothing package based on his styling preferences, and he’ll be happy looking good round the clock. At just $65/month, that’s a pleasure that can’t be beaten.

Stylish Monthly Clothing Subscription

If your stylish gay man doesn’t need a box sent to him every month, he can modify his delivery schedule at any time just for his needs, as members can pause their account up to 3 consecutive months.

You should know

  • With every box sent, Urbanebox donates $1 towards the cause of helping children all over the world
  • Lady friends can subscribe, as well

36. Drift Away Coffee

Two things are certain for most men in the morning, morning wood and a cuppa joe. Give your gay guy personalized freshly roasted coffee sourced globally and delivered to his doorstep just two days after roasting with Drift Away Coffee. Customize delivery and other options from as low as $14/month.

Drift Away Coffee

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What’s more

  • Every shipment includes the origin story so he’ll know your coffee and the coffee former
  • 5 cents for every pound donated towards long term coffee sustainability (World Coffee Research)

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4 responses to “36 Stylish Gifts for Stylish Gay Men

  1. My gay boyfriend and lover needs and wants virtually nothing of material worth, so it’s hard for me to gift him with items he enjoys.

    You excellent ideas of luggage, a GQ magazine subscription, large ice cubes and ice balls trays, and the collapsible set of travel cubes or pouches are excellent for my man!

    Thanks a bunch!

  2. Big fan of the Dollar Shave Club! I actually personally use their razors myself 🙂 Also love the Carry-On Cocktail Kit – I bought one last year for my boyfriend when I got us plane tickets to San Francisco for his birthday. He struggles with flight anxiety so this was a great little gift for him to calm the nerves!

    Great gift ideas on this post!

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