In just 6 weeks, develop awareness, habits and powerful systems that will take you from feeling stuck to feeling excited and in control of your personal life, love life, health and wealth.

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TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AND HAPPINESS


Imagine if in just 6 weeks, you could . . .

  • Create an effective DAILY ROUTINE that helps you stay happy, healthy, motivated and productive.
  • Develop better HABITS using a simple but powerful technique that helps you actually stick to them.
  • Have an easy way to get A HEALTHY DINNER ON THE TABLE every single night....without hassle or overwhelm.
  • Got crystal clear on your GOALS and PURPOSE, so you can start living your fullest life.
  • Develop DEEPER INTIMACY with your partner that leads to a better connection, better sex and relationship security.
  • Effectively CUT YOUR EXPENSES to get control of your budget, live a bigger life feel less stressed about your money.

The Happy Gay Men’s Club™ is a program and community built by gay men for gay men to show you how to create deeper purpose, better routines and habits, and more intimacy to be a truly and completely happy, healthy and wealthy gay man in a relationship with another man.

David & John are very relatable and have a love of their community. They're not afraid to expose their own trials and set a great example. It's super valuable that they shed light on a "dark" topic within our community (overspending to fill emotional gaps). Keep up the great work!

- Jason H. -

WHAT OUR STUDENTS HAVE TO SAY . . .


The Debt Free Guys helped me realize my financial self-care is as important as other self-care for myself and our community.

– Michael C –

With a gentle understanding of how it feels to have "been there," and "done that," the Debt Free Guys shared a compelling, judgment and jargon-free evening that let us, really begin to work, individually and collectively, towards a clearer understanding of who we are, and what is truly important and beautiful about that.

– David M –

With the Debt Free Guys, we found the help we truly needed to get us back on track.

– Brandon & Alex –

You guys are a couple. You had your journey together to fix your situation. It was just a different perspective from somebody I could relate to. When you’re trying to solve a problem that’s been hanging out there for a while, looking from someone else’s … viewpoint of how to fix your situation is a good thing.

– Fred & Rich –

I come from a super-religious family that’s not been too accepting of my life choices … so [spending] is also a way to say, ‘Hey, I’m doing all right.’ The [Debt Free Guys’] program has actually helped us reshape our thinking.

– Nathan E –

  • Direction & Purpose - The foundation of happiness, knowing what you truly want and what it takes to get there.
  • Love - The relationship you want full of pragma, eros and ludus love whether you currently have a man or are attracting your Prince Charming.
  • Money - Clear steps to master your finances and get the financial security you want today and for your fabulous future.
  • Wellness - Wellness of the body, mind and spirit.
  • Lifestyle - A fabulous yet sustainable lifestyle that supports your self-confidence, happiness, wealth and generosity.

Meet Your Guides

And we know exactly what it feels like to struggle with authentic and total happiness.

Hey there, We’re David & John . . . and we give you permission to start being an authentically happy gay man.

The world feels chaotic right now. Layer on top of that all the baggage we (gay men) bring with us into adulthood and the hostility we’ve had to face over the last few decades, and it’s easy to be content with being left alone and not expecting too much or be convinced of our own façade.

And yet, we've also learned that when life feels too crazy or too heavy, the best thing you can do is take a step back, clear your head and focus on the things that you can control . . . many of which we’ve never given ourselves the permission to focus on. Our holistic program is the thing that has most allowed us to stay sane and live extra and succeed more, even in this straight man’s world.

Our ultimate goal is to help you (and all gay men) reach self-actualization and have greater collective enlightenment of gay men. To help you love your life inside and out as the greatest version of yourself.

You can find out more about us and what we do HERE.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS....

WHAT’S INCLUDED IN THE HAPPY GAY MEN’S CLUB?

The Happy Gay Men’s Club™ is a life management program ultimately designed to help you become an authentically happy gay man. It’ll also help you and your current or future man be more intimate and have a more exciting sex life, create daily routines & habits for better physical and spiritual wellness get control of your money and home life.  

This life-changing course will be taught in 5 lessons, which are intended to be digested over the course of 6 weeks. Each lesson will include a brief lesson to teach the concept you’ll be mastering, along with digital course materials for actually implementing what you learn and putting it into practice in your own life.

Your enrollment in the Happy Gay Men’s Club™ also comes with the Living Fabulously Life Planner (a $97 value).


WHAT WILL I GAIN FROM THIS PROGRAM?

The Happy Gay Men’s Club™ focuses on helping you gain control over four key areas —Love, Money, Wellness & Lifestyle – with a solid foundation of Direction & Purpose. Each lesson is short and super helpful, as well as practical, and actionable, so that by the end of our time together, you are feeling happy, fulfilled, productive and confident – ready to love yourself and your life as an out, self-actualized and enlightened gay man.

By the end you will:

  • Be crystal clear on what your LIFE PURPOSE and how you’ll achieve it.
  • Be in or ready for a FULFILLING GAY RELATIONSHIP.
  • Create an effective DAILY ROUTINE that helps you stay motivated and productive.
  • Develop better HABITS using a simple but powerful proven technique that allows you to actually stick to them.
  • Have a PLAN to improve your physical, emotional and spiritual wellness.
  • Gain CONTROL over your financial life.
  • Have a COMMUNITY of like-minded gay men all on a quest for self-actualization and enlightenment.

HOW LONG WILL THE PROGRAM TAKE?

The Happy Gay Men’s Club™ is designed to be easily digestible, with short but powerful lessons that you can begin applying right away. While you'll have access to the entire program right away and are free to complete it at your own pace, we recommend completing one lesson a week in order to give yourself time to actually apply the lessons in your life. At this recommended pace, you will be able to complete the program in just 6  weeks.


WHAT IS THE LIVING FABULOUSLY LIFE PLANNER?

The Living Fabulously Life Planner is more than a calendar. It’s a whole-life system designed to help you execute on your Direction & Purpose, manage the daily habits that’ll improve your physical, emotional and spiritual wellness and manage your fabulous life with an eye on your finances. Oh, and it includes a calendar.


HOW DO I KNOW THE HAPPY, GAY MEN’S CLUB IS RIGHT FOR ME?

The Happy Gay Men’s Club™ is for any gay man, single or partnered, looking to master four key pillars of a happy life – love, money, wellness and lifestyle – and helps you lay (find) the foundation for all these – direction and purpose. Together you’ll develop simple, easy-to-implement (but incredibly effective) systems for each pillar, you’ll feel calm, focused, and totally in control of your life and money – happy. 

The practical program is applicable whether you’re single or married, whether you have children at home or not, and whether you’re in your 20s, 30s, 40s or beyond.


I’M STILL LOOKING FOR MY PRINCE CHARMING. IS THE HAPPY GAY MEN'S CLUB RIGHT FOR ME?

Yes. Being a happy, healthy and wealthy gay man is a 360-experience whether you’re single or partnered. The Happy Gay Men’s Club™ will help you lay the foundation and emit the vibration to attract that man who will help you grow into the highest version of yourself.


IS HAPPY GAY MEN'S CLUB REALLY WORTH THE COST?

In a word… yes! The systems and practical tips and – best of all – community that make up the Happy Gay Men’s Club™ will pay for themselves. That's why we offer a 100% happiness guarantee — if you apply the lessons and don't see results, we'll refund the cost of the club. No questions asked.


WHAT'S YOUR REFUND POLICY?

No system works unless you're willing to use it, but we are confident that if you actually apply our methods to your life, the Happy Gay Men’s Club™ will pay for itself many times over.  

That said, if you complete your course work and for any reason are not completely satisfied, we will refund your purchase minus the value of the nonrefundable planner, no questions asked.


WHERE CAN I FIND OUT MORE ABOUT YOUR COMPANY, DEBT FREE GUYS?

Debt Free Guys LLC with debtffreeguys.com, the Queer Money® podcast and debtlasso.com help queer people (and allies) live fabulously not fabulously broke by helping them 1) become debt free, 2) become part- or full-time entrepreneurs and 3) save and invest for a fabulous retirement.

With the Happy Gay Men’s Club™, we’re building a bigger community of self-actualized and enlightened gay men who are a force for positive change, equality, abundance and love.

We’ve been in business since 2013 and have served hundreds of thousands of clients, readers and listeners around the world. We have authored four books, including 4: The Four Principles of a Debt Free Life, contributed to Forbes and been featured on CNBC, HuffPost, Advocate, Good Morning America and more.

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