A Surprising Secret to a Better Gay Sex Life

Want better gay sex?

‘Talk dirty to me’ may take on a new meaning when you learn that discussing money with your partner leads to a stronger relationship, a better gay sex life (and lesbian, and transgender and straight sex) and greater happiness.

How to have better gay sex?

We partnered with Honeyfi for a recent survey that revealed that queer couples who track and discuss a shared budget were 81% more likely to report being extremely happy and 54% more likely to report having a great sex life! Want better sex? Talk about your money.

The secret to better gay sex:

How Honeyfi can help you have better gay sex

Sam Schultz is the co-founder of Honeyfi, a budget app that helps couples manage their money together. Today, Sam shares the fundamentals of the Honeyfi app, explaining how it facilitates collaboration between partners. We discuss the key takeaways from our comprehensive LGBT and money study. Sam shares his take on the correlation between working together on financial goals and playing together in the bedroom.

The Honeyfi & Debt Free Guys LGBTQ Money Survey

Topics covered about having better gay sex by talking about money more

The Honeyfi app

  • Money management for couples
  • Decide what to share with a partner
  • Create a budget, track spending
  • Navigate life events, save for goals

The Honeyfi LGBT study

  • Survey of 300 couples
  • Finances, relationship

The benefits of discussing the details of a shared budget

  • 81% more likely to report extreme happiness
  • 54% more likely to report great sex life

The surprising statistics around not knowing your partner’s credit score

  • 30% less likely to report being extremely happy
  • 15% less likely to report having a great sex life

The relationship between conversation around finances and happiness

  • Consistency across fields points to causation (vs. correlation)
  • Anecdotal evidence of honesty strengthening relationship
  • Achieving goals together leads to celebration, happiness

Sam’s take on combined finances and happiness

  • 78% more likely to report extreme happiness
  • May be a reflection of limited options, tools

How Honeyfi facilitates collaboration

  • Control what share (gradually add on)
  • Work toward common goals

The numbers around even distribution of financial responsibility

  • 61% more likely to report extreme happiness
  • 47% less likely to fight about money

Why it’s crucial for couples to collaborate on financial goals

  • Won’t reach goals if ignore the problem, no target in mind

Honeyfi’s effort to represent a diverse cross-section of the LGBT community

  • Variety of demographics, household income

Sam’s advice on first steps for financial collaboration

  • Share one credit card, account on Honeyfi
  • View as a team sport, open communication channel

Connect with Sam @ Honeyfi

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