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Being Happy in Bed with Your Bed Buddies

  July 6, 2016  |    #Live Fabulously

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Bed Buddies Director, Reid Waterer

On this episode of Queer Money®, we talk with shorts film writer and director of Bed Buddies, Reid Waterer. Reid’s written and directed other successful queer shorts such as Foreign Relations, Daddy’s Big Girl and The Deviants. While you’re here, get your free copy of the  5 Building Blocks of a Happy Gay Life.

Getting in bed with Bed Buddies, Reid Waterer

Reid’s award-winning shorts, such as Deviants and You Can’t Curry Love, have played over 200 film festivals on six continents. Reid lives and works in Los Angles as an editor of trailers and TV advertising for movies and television shows, including The Hangover, Transparent, Grace & Frankie and Mamma Mia!

Listen to Director, Reid Waterer on Queer Money®:

Meet Reid Waterer

On this episode of Queer Money®, Reid shares how he became inspired to get into film and how he realized he preferred to be behind the scenes. Reid also shares how after graduating from UCS Film School, he landed a job with Peter Bogdanovich, the director of such lauded films as The Last Picture Show, Paper Moon, What’s Up Doc and Mask, that his fellow college graduates wouldn’t take.

Reid shares how taking this and other jobs others thought were beneath them informed his career. Reid also talks about how he deals with the random haters and uses his fans to inspire him, how he’s kept an open mind to opportunities that have helped his career and how he overcomes the inevitable entrepreneurial frustration.

Finally, and best of all, Reid shares what he thinks is the definition of success and failure. “The difference between success and failure is that to be a success you have to continue on when any normal person would quit,” says Reid.

What is Bed Buddies?

Bed Buddies is the story of what happens when three close friends accidentally have sex. It portrays how they reconcile this. It gives color to unique challenges gays and lesbians sometimes experience with their gay and lesbian friends and challenges the traditional paradigms of plural relationships.

How to reach outrageous goals like Reid

Achieving goals isn’t something for others to experience and not you. Reaching all your goals, living your best life, is for you, too.

Too often, we don’t know what our dreams are. We’re too wrapped up in what others want for us, then we forget what it is we truly want.

It’s for this reason, that we found ourselves in $51,000 in credit card debt. We racked up a lifetime of unnecessary expenses trying to impress everyone else, trying to meet their expectations, and we forgot what mattered to us.

5 Building Blocks of a Happy Gay Life

To figure out your goals and make your dreams come true, too, starts with knowing what makes you happy. Get your copy of the 5 Building Blocks of a Happy Gay Life.

3 ways to make your next 3-way more fun

1. Play a sex game

Whether it’s the two of you or a slew of gays, make game night extra with some sex. Sex dice are great because no one knows who’s gonna get what . . . and that’s the fun. Just roll the dice and put yourselves at the mercy of fate.

These sex dice are great because they glow in the dark . . . because who wants to have sex with all the lights on? You’ll get four dice, two with various sexual positions to try, one with action words, such as “Lick” and “Blow” and one with the names of body parts, such as “Thigh” and “Nipple.”

Gay Date Ideas - Play a sex game

It’ll take time to warm up and not be so literal with what you roll, as some combinations won’t make sense at first. But, when you loosen up and get creative, the fun begins. Of course, you’ll eventually want to get to the deed. So, dice usually facilitate the foreplay, and at $13.98, they’re worth it.

In the 90s, Madonna took Truth or Dare to the next level. Well, it’s the raging 20s and it’s time to one-up the queen with a sex-inspired evening of your own with these Truth or Dare Cards for Couples.

Filled with 50 naughty truths and 50 risqué dares, you and your guy will have a fun and “revealing” evening together. All that fun for $8.95 is perfect for the sexual couple on a budget.

Why these games get you more bang for your buck

  • You’ll get more intimate
  • They’ll spice up your sex lives
  • You’ll learn more about yourself

2. A gay sex toy kit

One of the best parts of having a l/t boyfriend, partner or husband is experimenting, and you know your favorite couple likes to play. Surprise and delight them with this LANYHU nylon and leather toy set.

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At just $23.00, they’ll get way more from you than they ever expected and you’ll get a lifetime of thank yous. Spread the love with nights of endless fun.

The other tricks with this treat are

  • Made with high-quality, environmentally friendly material
  • Reusable

3. Roll the Dice on Fun Sex

Have fun with him under the Xmas tree with a little holiday game . . . sex dice. Sex dice are fun because no one knows who’s gonna have to do what . . . and that’s the fun. Just roll the dice and submit.

These sex dice are great because they glow in the dark . . . and are perfect for under Christmas lights. He’ll get four dice, two with various sexual positions to try, one with action words, such as “Lick” and “Blow” and one with the names of body parts, such as “Thigh” and “Nipple.”

sex dice

It’ll take time to warm up and not be so literal with what you roll, as some combinations won’t make sense at first. But, when you loosen up and get creative, the fun begins. Of course, you’ll eventually want to get to the deed. So, dice usually facilitate the foreplay, and at $13.98, they’re worth it.

Why these games get you more bang for your buck

  • You’ll explore things you’ve never thought of doing
  • You’ll let loose of some of your hang-ups
  • You’ll learn more about your partner(s)

4. Blocks of Desire

As you can tell, we love sex and we love games, and anything that combines the two is right up our alley – no pun intended. Our NEW favorite sex game is Blocks of Desire. Think Jenga, Twister, sex dice and sex combined.

Blocks of Desire

That’s an amazing night for $35.99 available here.

What they’ll love:

  • More sex with you and the other boyz
  • Creative sexual positions
  • Their rocks off

Here’s more info for more gay fun:

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